Wednesday, November 25, 2009

Silent, But Readily


Deep Kyoto has published my write-up on the Vipassana course. What isn't stated in the article is that I didn't finish. Sitting more than 10 hours a day took its toll. I had a few moments the first day where I wondered if I'd make it, yet day two was a tad easier, and I had no doubt that I would stick it out. But my knee had other ideas.

I've been nursing a Baker's cyst for over a year, which had been a nuisance but hadn't limited my activities in any way. But for some reason, last August it began to really hurt, and by mid-month, I had to curb teaching certain yoga poses, could no longer sit seiza. It was fine during the Kumano and Shikoku walks, but hours sitting cross-legged brought about incredible pain.

One of the goals of the Vipassana technique is to realize that pain is fleeting, and will fade eventually if not given too much importance. I could deal with the stiff back and legs, but I thought to ignore an existing medical condition wasn't wise. I decided to watch it and see how it went; pain at the end of the day was understandable, but if I awoke with pain I'd have to reevaluate things.

That morning did come. I continued most of the day in meditation, yet was distracted by incessant thoughts. If I quit, was I weak? That was ego talking. But if I stuck it out to prove something to myself or others, wasn't that ego too? I looked at it from many angles, and found that any action, or its opposing action, were all driven by ego. My feet sank deeper into the sand on the bank of the Rubicon.

I also began to question the reasoning behind such long periods of sitting. Ten hours a day isn't the real issue. Two hour sessions are. To the best of my knowledge, the zen or yoga traditions never sit this long, usually sitting in shorter periods, with breaks or walking meditation between. (One hour zazen sittings aren't unheard of, but I feel that this is less about quality meditation than about 'building character.' Ahem. Within the zen world, I prefer the "Take It Easy" form of Soto to the "Take it to the Limit" style of Rinzai anyway.) I personally find that anything more than 30 minutes is futile. In the Vipassana meditation hall, there would be silence for the first half hour, then the remaining time was a cacophony of shifting bodies. It seemed no one was able to concentrate anymore. What is the point? (I invite anyone who knows the reason to explain it to me.)

The night before I left, I went for a late night pee. Stepping outside, I startled a large animal, which crashed through the forest somewhere out there in the dark. The high pitched bark that followed told me it was a pair of deer, one calling out to its mate. I was inspired to make my own dash. At the Vipassana center we were segregated by sex, and sworn to uphold silence. I spied my wife on her side of the fence, but couldn't get her attention. Unlike the deer, I'd go alone.

On the afternoon of the 4th day, I was standing on the train platform, not sure whether to go west to Yonago or east to Kyoto. A westbound train came in, and I took it. After days of deprivation my senses were alive, finding beauty in every sight, sound, flavor. The peace I'd felt during the course remained. Yet something nagged. My escape to freedom was a move in the complete opposite direction from what the Buddhists define as 'liberation.' I felt I'd made the right choice regarding the knee, but had the knee given my ego an excuse to get out of a very challenging situation? I continued to beat myself up as the train moved slowly along the Sea of Japan...



On the turntable: King Curtis, "Live at the Fillmore West"
On the nighttable: David Foster Wallace, "Girl with Curious Hair"

3 comments:

taikotari said...

Oh Ted, sometimes you gotta do what you gotta do. Not much point being in pain at length, and possibly coming out of the 10days with severe injury. You know you could've done it!
Love the part about the deer. :)

How many more days has Miki got left?

TenThousandThings said...

Ted,

I've been enjoying your beautiful blog for some years now.

I'm wondering if you've heard of the film "The Dhamma Brothers" about maximum-security prison inmates in Alabama (deep in the Bible Belt) studying Vipassana meditation with amazing outcomes. http://www.dhammabrothers.com/
I think in their cases, there was so much unattended emotional baggage that needed to come up and finally did -- in a rare supportive humanistic environment -- that the practitioners did achieve movement towards liberation.

In your case, perhaps because there's not that baggage and you live in a liberatory space already, perhaps you don't really need Vipassana. That's my sense in reading your blogs which are like fresh windows--that you're already "there" as much as we can be. Just a thought.

If you check out the movie (there's a clip), you can see why these prisoners needed and did so well with their experience.

Does the Cafe de Lotus still exist at Koya-san? I loved that place.

Best, Jean Downey (fellow KJ-er)

Pamela said...

Ted. Hi. Funny I was thinking of doing Vipassana again and came across your blog. Totally right to leave Vipassana I reckon - if those deer weren't a message from the universe, I don't know what would be. I've got into Osho dynamic meditations more recently - highly recommend them as Vipassana alternative or adjunct!

Take care
Pamela (Yonago 2004-06)